Happy Saturday, Friends! I was going to do a post #2 gift guide yesterday, but got so behind on things at the
store. Please come into the store today. I love getting to know you!
The biz:
I'm having so much fun meeting new customers that are coming in daily and bringing with them...the bright, May sunshine that lifts my spirit. Not to mention all your smiles and ideas. Thank you for coming into see me!! By the way, one new customer of mine...gave me a terrific idea this week. More on that to come...
The blog:
*In case you've not noticed, I'm hosting a giveaway in honor of mom's day. Go here to check it out. {
By the way...I'm a bit perplexed that only three people have signed up!! Come on sweet-peas!}
*Okay,
and I'm a bit stumped and want to figure out how to make my blog better....While I have lists and lists of ideas for projects I'm working on that are about ten miles long, I'm fresh out of ideas on what you'd like to see here on the blog. I'm all ears and would
really love to have your feedback. Any new blogs you love out there? Any suggestions for some weekly features you'd like to see? More wedding/events? Interior Inspirations and Room Makeovers? Flea Market finds? Design Crushes? Family features?
*Or, should I just quit? That's not my style, so I don't even know why I just said that. Some days I think about it, though. Fitting it in, isn't the easiest thing to do when you have a biz, four kids, an old house and one more bebe on the way.
I do know this...blog revamp is underway! I'm going to alleviate the side bar all together and make photos HUGE. This requires more work than I thought it would. Hours of decoding and rewriting.
MOTHERHOOD: The biggest gift AND job in life.
How did I get here? One minute I'm just a girl...and the next I'm pregnant, and the next, here in my arms I hold and let go of one, two, three, and four real beings that are quickly walking out into the big, scary world. Equipped with the training
I am giving them? Nothing really prepares us for this job fully.
And
my, oh, my, have they ever taught me some things about life? At least I'd like to think I've learned some things while trying my best to raise them. I'm sure they will continue to teach me many more new things as we stumble our way through minute by minute.
Structure: Whenever there is a breakdown or chaos within the house, it's usually due to the fact that the daily schedule has fallen apart. Daily tasks, and schedules MUST be drawn up and seen thru. Consequences laid out as well {this is so hard to follow thru with for me, but when I don't...things worsen}.
Laugh: I'd be a big, tight mess without it.
Listen: I don't always know EVERYTHING. Listening gives them a sense of individuality, and a voice. Also, find out what they feel, think, see before and while they are teens with big social lives.
One on One Time: My mom and dad did this with nine kids! Bless their hearts in heaven!! Life is crowded in a big household, and it's hard to get a word in edge-wise with some of the fighting, and the hustle-bustle. Time out or just a five minute talk one-on-one each night at bed time helps to "build up" a strong realization that this person and all their activities really do matter.
Lead by being Good: They watch everything and take in all that we do, whether we realize it or not...so, working hard to do everything we can "right"... is a good goal to have. "Do your best" is what my parents told me everyday..so I like to tell myself and my kids this daily, too.
Fess-Up: As a mom, I make mistakes all the time. I think it shows humility and strength to fess up to mistake. Own them and say, "I shouldn't have done that, I will NOT let that happen again." I WILL do better.
Give High-Fives, Not Lingering Applause: I won't be a gushing mom, because I think this can make kids have an inflated sense of themselves. I can still let them know I'm proud of them step by step along the way to build the confidence they'll need in the real world.
Honey Time: Keeping a tight, partner relationship is key to keeping the household structure running smoothly and happily too. If we are good partners to each other, the kids will feel good too. Being on the same page will ensure that no loop-holes are discovered. I like to think of it as a good-business-type partnership with kisses all around.
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| Me, as the baby girl. |
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| Eleanor, Louis, Charlie, and Sylvie |
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| Eleanor, 16yrs |
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| Louis, 15yrs |
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| Charlie, 11yrs |
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| Syl, 2010 |
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| Baby A. due this late summer |
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| Will and Me, 2009 |
xo
sharon
